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Lost My Darling Dog Christmas Eve Morning

Last post 01-13-2010, 2:20 AM by vixen. 9 replies.
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  •  12-28-2008, 3:33 PM 5222

    Lost My Darling Dog Christmas Eve Morning

    Some of the old-timers will remember my darling Gertie, an almost 14 yr old Australian cattle dog mix who was truly God's gift to me when her original doggie momma, my best friend, died about 7 years ago.  She'd asked me to take care of Gertie and I'd also already been Gertie's caretaker when my old friend travelled so I was already very close to Gert.  Anyhow... I've been completely blindsided by her death and it has been harder than I could ever have imagined.  At about 2:30 a.m. Christmas eve morning I was (still) up sewing on a Christmas stocking when Gertie just didn't seem to be acting "right".  Within a few minutes I thought she was having a stroke or something... her gait was wobbly and she seemed disoriented.  I'm getting too emotional so will close by saying I rushed her to the emergency vet (with the help of very kind neighbors... I could not pick Gertie up alone) where she was diagnosed with a devastating cancer.  After several hours they said euthanasia was the kindest thing to do. She could not survive surgery and the ensuing chemotherapy.  Gertie was my first and only pet companion and I don't think I will ever have another.  She had regular vet care and received a clean bill of health in August.  I don't understand how something this bad come happen so quickly and am very upset it wasn't caught.  In fact, I was told she was "just spoiled" when I complained about her picky eating habits for the past few years.  Then they wrote it off to 'she has a sensitive stomach" so I started cooking most of her meals.

    She was a dear soul whose passing needs to be acknowledged and I will miss and love her forever.  I only hope she went home to be with her original 'momma'... my friend, Mary, on Christmas eve.  It is the only way I can live with losing her. 

    Here's an old photo... I've likely posted it previously, but it is the best one I have stored online.  This was taken about 7 years ago when Mary was dying.  When we'd get Mary up for any reason Gertie would immediately jump to Mary's pillow!  Otherwise, Gertie kept her little self parked right at Mary's bedside or on the end of the bed.  What a dear angel she was.  She looked pretty much the same recently except she was almost completely gray... a little brindle still showed... but once recently I happened to see her in the moonlight and I swear she looked like a little ghost doggie.. she was silvery all over and glimmered in the moonlight.  God bless you and hold you in his hands, my sweet Gertie. 

    Well, dang it, I can't post it... tried pasting it to the email, but I don't think that works.  Maybe I'll try again another day.  Trust me... she was... and will always be... a dear soul.   JeannieTX  (aka: Kestner143)

      

     

  •  12-28-2008, 4:13 PM 5223 in reply to 5222

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    Our sympathy goes out to you. We had to have our Golden ret. mix put down because of beast cancer.  After 2 surgeries it came back like a wildfire. This was 9 years ago and she is still remembered to this day. Our vet told us to get another pet right away, it did help with the mourning and now this one is starting to get old. Mary and I get way to attached to them,but we don't know how not to.  Take care and keep the memories close to your heart.  Big Bob and Minnie Mary
  •  12-29-2008, 3:23 AM 5228 in reply to 5223

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    Hi Bob, Thank you for your kind words.  I just now read about your wife's surgery on December 11th.  How is she?  Are you all back home by now? 

    You mentioned it was neurosurgery.  What kind of tumor did she have?  Gertie's original dog mama was also named Mary and she had a glioblastoma multi-forme, grade 4 (at least that's what I can remember...). 

    Hope your Mary is home and doing better.  Thanks again for your words.  It is so hard with pets.  I used to tell Gertie I wish she could just say a few words to me.  I could understand most of what she tried to "tell" me... but I sure missed the boat on the big one.

     Good luck... JeannieTX

  •  12-29-2008, 1:08 PM 5229 in reply to 5222

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    That is so sad..My heart goes out to you.  That cancer in dogs moves so fast...I had my dog running after balls and livin it up and then one day...3 months later...gone.  And we tried all the works..radiation and Chemo.. I waited three years before I took a chance with another.  And I am lovin her just as much........I also had to put two 17 year olds down too over the years...it just sucks!  But I love my buddies...have to have them.  They are all waiting for me..and you..for SURE!!!!  I am thankful I had the time with them all! (But it really sucks big time, ech?) Hugs, PUNKY
  •  12-30-2008, 5:46 AM 5232 in reply to 5229

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    Oh I'm so sorry for you as well. It's so hard to lose our pets... Big hugs to you Broken HeartI know your heart is breaking...
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  •  12-30-2008, 7:41 AM 5235 in reply to 5222

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    Hey Jeannie, Mary is doing really great , she ditched the walker 5 days ago. I,m still nervous so I make sure I am right there when she walks.  She had a benign acoustic neuroma located at base of her brain on the right side. It has destroyed her hearing in right ear , seriously affected her balance and minimally affected her facial nerve. When they removed the tumor they implanted a steel post just above surgical site . In approx 8-12 weeks a sound processor will be attached, sound from her left ear will travel thru the cranial bones to the processor tricking her brain into thinking it is hearing in her right ear. Amazing ... Her balance is returning and is better than it has been in a couple of years. Her facial nerves will return to normal in time. Now it is just a matter of resting, healing and getting her strength back. God has been so good to us and we give him the honor , praise and the glory. Truly all things are possible thru him.  Hope you have a Happy New Year and remember that we grieve with you in your loss.  Big Bob
  •  12-31-2008, 1:20 AM 5241 in reply to 5235

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    Jeannie and Big Bob,

    Just wanted to say sending special prayers for you all, that you Jeannie find comfort in knowing  your sweet Gertie has gone home and there is someone welcoming her there. To lose a pet, and I use the word pet with the utmost honor and respect as we all know they are so much more, our children, our best friends, is just as hard as losing our human loves.  Our 4 legged even seem to be a step up sometimes as they love us unconditionally.

    Big Bob,  my prayers include your Mary to continue to heal, and go forwards in her recovery, that indeed all things are possible thru Him, and we find strong faith remembering that. May the New Year hold many blessings for all of you....

    Ardith

  •  12-31-2008, 3:35 AM 5242 in reply to 5241

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    I am so very sorry to hear about your loss.  Am sending sincere best wishes and prayers to you.
  •  01-28-2009, 5:44 AM 5443 in reply to 5242

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    Jeannie I am so sorry to read about your Gertie - I remember when u moved house last year you wondered if she would settle into the new place and you were so happy she was fine.   I lost our Bonnie last year and we now have Minnie (sorry it was year before) - I vowed and declared I would never have another dog and was just scrolling down a for sale ad in one of my sites and lo and behold she jumped out at me - she is a long haired chihauha cross Maltese but looks all chih to us - she has the same face as our Bonnie and would you believe she was born the same day we put our Bonnie to sleep.   She was bought by a lady whose hubby got pancreatic cancer and she couldn't look after her and wanted an older couple to take her (she was only 5 months old) - I had to write a letter lol lol saying why I wanted her etc.   - My dh reckoned we cold have bought a pup as we had to drive for 5 hours each way and pay $120 for a motel etc. etc. to pick her up.   She was a cranky little person but is fine now and I love her to death and think that is what Bonnie would have wanted (she was sixteen and a half) - I know how u feel as I grieved for months for my little friend - take care and down the road someone is going to come into your life when you least expect it as happened to me - unconditional love is what it is - love from downunder - BELLA
  •  01-13-2010, 2:20 AM 6079 in reply to 5443

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    dear jeannie and bob my prayers are with yall.jeannie i have had many pets over the years.we have lost many dogs.all but two lived to be 15 years old.we have two dogs,two cats and a rabbit.all the animals we had over the years were strays that needed a home.i am so sorry you lost your pet.i still miss everyone of mine that i lost.it is hard to let them go.bob it is so great to hear that your wife is recovering and i hope the lord blesses her with a speedy recovery.have a goodnight.
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